This morning started off well enough…it changed abruptly around 10:00. My Father called and asked me to meet him at the hospital, Mom was sick and going in. Mom has been pretty sick since November, they haven’t really been able to find the cause. The last couple of days have been bad.
The last couple of months, the Lord has really been impressing on me to become re-certified in my nursing, and finish my nursing degree program. A friend told me, to “follow my heart” and it stuck. I’ve become re-certified as an assistant and will finish my RN program that I started several years ago. I tell you this because I love how He works.
In the hospital today as she was going through the usual tests, we talked about everything that we never really have time to talk about because of life. Then about an hour ago, the doctors came in, and said that more than half of her liver, her spine and gal bladder were full of cancer. She held my hand tight, and after hearing all they had to say, turned to us and said “We knew this day would come, I won’t cry if you don’t.” All I promised was that I would not cry in front of her, so far I’ve kept to my word.
Because the Lord prompted me a few weeks ago to get my certification, I will begin a different job, one offer I have had for home health, and my Mom. He had me completely prepared and I praise Him for this opportunity. It will be a honor to me to be able to assist in the care of this beautiful woman of God until He calls her home.
Everything that was a worry this morning, is no longer a worry. Everything else has paled in comparison to what the next few weeks, months will hold.
I know there are some mighty prayer warriors out there, so I’m calling on you. Pray for my Father, they just celebrated 46 years of marriage. My Mom will be in the hospital over the next 3 days, having biopsies done on the hot spots they found today. In addition to prayer for her pain level, my mom can be a bit feisty. So please pray for the doctors and nurses as well. One more, if I may. Our son is getting married this Saturday, the 30th. Her deepest desire is to be able to attend….
Thank you, and I love you guys.
Stirred not Shaken 
That is one thing I do have through this that is wonderful. A great family and friend support team. As strong as my Mom is, my Dad I believe to be equal if not stronger. He is quite a guy….and his faith in Christ is amazing….thanks for the prayer!
Comment by Debs — May 27, 2009 @ 6:56 pm
Went through this with Dad eight years ago (Lung/brain – inoperable)
Know where you are at (‘cept i never had a similar level of support)
My Mum has mostly dealt with it well so there is Hope for your Dad also.
Prayers for all.
<B
Comment by lovewillbringustogether — May 27, 2009 @ 7:59 am
Thank you W….
Comment by Debs — May 27, 2009 @ 5:38 am
Thanks T, really appreciate the prayers…
Comment by Debs — May 27, 2009 @ 5:38 am
Love you too, can’t wait to hug ur neck… 🙂
Comment by Debs — May 27, 2009 @ 5:36 am
R: LOL, amazing how things are passed down eh? 😉
Comment by Debs — May 27, 2009 @ 5:36 am
Wow Debs. I will be praying.
MOM can be feisty, huh… genetics.
Comment by ric booth — May 27, 2009 @ 1:23 am
read through the comments…my heart and prayers are with you..love you
Comment by darla — May 26, 2009 @ 3:16 pm
Good afternoon. I will definately keep you and your family in prayer.
Blessings in Jesus name.
timbob
Comment by timbob — May 26, 2009 @ 2:39 pm
You know we will keep all of your family in our prayers. God bless you and grant you the wisdom and compassion you need as you share your Christ with others, Confident that you will do that well!
Comment by Indian Lake Papa — May 26, 2009 @ 9:00 am
I am praying all goes well.
Comment by Willison — May 25, 2009 @ 8:42 pm
Hi Papa….in addition to the cancer, they have found a large blood clot in the main artery leading to her heart. We are in the process of setting up hospice to bring her home. I told everyone she was feisty….
Conversation:
Doctor: “Do you have a particular religious belief that is important to you?”
Twenty minutes later, after a mini sermon, the doctor got to ask his next question…..
Nurse: I will think good thoughts toward you…
Mom: Praying and knowing the one true living God is much more effective…and it went on from there…
The good thing about spending so much time in the hospital are all the wonderful witnessing opportunities, so many people just. need. Jesus.
Comment by Debs — May 25, 2009 @ 4:11 pm
How is your mom today? Been praying.
Comment by Indian Lake Papa — May 25, 2009 @ 1:46 pm
Michelle: Thank you, and love you too!
Dan…He is, and it will be, thank you for being there.. 🙂
Papa: I remember mama telling me, congratulations! Love you
Comment by Debs — May 25, 2009 @ 6:25 am
Deb, mama and papa are praying for all of you – there is a second marriage taking place this Saturday as well – mama and papa are renewing our vows. We celebrate 44 years this July. will be praying that your mom will get to attend your son’s wedding. God bless –
Love you,
Mama & Papa XO XO 😉
Comment by Indian Lake Papa — May 25, 2009 @ 4:40 am
May He bless this time you have with your Mom and may her homegoing be a huge celebration, whenever it is. . .
Comment by Born4Battle — May 25, 2009 @ 4:21 am
Oh, my…I am praying, Debs.
I love you.
Comment by Michelle — May 24, 2009 @ 8:18 pm